Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Where Is Spring?

Hi again. I feel the need to introduce myself. Hi. I'm Jen and I knit. Sometimes. Lately, not so much. And because I'm not too big on complaining publicly, and lately I've had not much nice to say, I've resorted to...well, not saying much. Which is probably not the right thing to do because I think about blogging quite a bit.

Just do it, right?

Genuine tagged me on her blog and even said I'm "very inventive" so I guess I need to follow through with that or lose her respect forever. This is a six-word memoir and it can include an illustration. Mine will not.

Reads, knits, writes; usually plays nicely.

Boring? Well, tough. In truth I would have liked to write something like "Writer saves humanity with poignant prose." But I have neither the ego nor the crystal ball to say that. So I'll stick to the here and now.

T&A
In other news, our daughter sailed through her tonsillectomy & adenoidectomy last week, but not through her recovery. It has been a tough, long slog. Two days after the surgery, she came down with croup and a nasty cold. Which meant she didn't want to eat. At all. Not even ice cream, popsicles or pudding could entice her. So it has been rough, but we're managing. She's almost 3, so she's got that 2/3 thing going on, too.

I was able to finish another diaper cover (before the surgery)! This is another soaker for Sam. It's from 100purewool's 3ply; the color is Brown Lilac and I just love it.
Curly Purly Diaper Cover for Sam

I also finished the second sock in a pair (after the surgery). This pair is made with Duet from A Swell Yarn Shop. I had traded for it on Ravelry a little while ago. I have to say while I adore the colors (cream, tan, pinks) I'm not in love with the yarn base. I found it splitty and squeaky. I think I've decided I'll mostly stick with wool/nylon blends for socks after this one. Superwash 100% wool just rubs me the wrong way. It feels too much like acrylic to me.

Duet Spring Socks

Even though they are heavy wool socks, there's something about them that says "spring" isn't there? (Despite the fact that we're supposed to get two more inches of snow tomorrow. On top of our 100+ inches for the season--we passed by our previous record of 76 inches awhile ago. Oh the humanity!)

Sunday, December 30, 2007

Sneak Peek

It hasn't blocked yet, but I couldn't wait to post this. I finished knitting the Elderberry Jacket last night and weaved the ends in this morning. After getting frustrated with Imogen, I pulled this baby out of the knitting trunk and realized I might be able to get it done in 2007.

Elderberry Elegance

I'm going to give it a bath this morning, block it and let it dry and then put on the buttons. It has been very good for me, emotionally, to finish up this sweater. I really want to wear it. You see, it's supposed to be in the single digits the next few days and I could use a squishy warm sweater to cozy up in.

Also some things have been going on at my son's preschool that I could have never dreamed up. He's apparently become his teachers' target for therapy. This, the second time they have suggested a second therapy for a separate thing, we took him to a skilled practitioner who indeed said, no, your son does not need said therapy. He needs understanding teachers. The truth is, as you might have imagined, he does not fit neatly into the little boxes that the majority of kids do, but that does not always warrant a diagnosis. Yeah he's different. He learned to read by himself a year ago when he was 4; I'd say that's different.

The hardest part for me has been, yet again, wondering if I am an attentive, loving, proactive parent or in denial. When our son was very young, he was exhibiting some abnormal communicative development, and while everyone around me was saying "No, no, he'll be fine..." I pushed to get him into the Birth-To-Three program. I never regretted it. His speech and other communication skills are now advanced for his age. Yes, that may have happened naturally, but I didn't want to find out. Now, having the teachers, out-of-the-blue, say that he needs therapy, and feeling inadequate, like I didn't spot something I should have, that has been emotionally draining.

So yeah, I need this sweater. In more ways than one.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Enough Already!

We have damn near 22 inches of snow on the ground. That's quite a bit for here in the first part of December...in fact someone was reminding me today that we had no snow for Christmas last year. I got very cozy with the snowblower yesterday and the kids played outside for awhile, too.
Snow kids
In fact I do like snow. It's driving in it that I really don't like. I believe that Grandma & Grandpa are getting the kids new, sturdy sleds this year for Christmas, and we will put them to good use. We tossed our old sleds because the pink plastic was cracking and breaking.

It's almost done! Wow, that Reader's Wrap is a fast project. Or maybe it's because I haven't knit on anything else since I started it. Usually I'm bouncing around all different projects. It's motivating to see how much I can get done when I stick with one project, actually.
Reader's Wrap
I had a difficult time photographing the color. It's Blueberry Borscht Peace Fleece and it's more of a dark periwinkle with raspberry flecks. I have about 2 more inches to knit then I'll add the second pocket and do 8 rows of seed stitch, bind off, weave in ends, sew down pockets (how?), block and wrap. Whew. Here's another shot in the sunlight...
Reader's Wrap
I'm about five posts away from my 100th post! I'd like to have a contest of some sort (with yarny goods to give away), so if you'd like to suggest a nifty one, I sure would be happy to consider it. Thanks.

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

It remains to be seen...


water4
Originally uploaded by Friender
if this actually will be cheaper than joining a local swimming pool this summer. However, it still is plenty of good, old-fashioned fun. M was much more interested in playing in the water this year. Last year, when she was still an itty bitty, she wanted nothing to do with it.

Saturday, June 02, 2007

Girls Party

Probably to some, I've made surprisingly little progress on these socks, but I am pleased. I did have to rip back once because of a mistake, but this is only my second time knitting two socks at the same time, toe-up, on two circular needles. I'm bound to be slow.

I am really enjoying it! I'm not sure why I'm so surprised, but I am. I really like this method. It especially suits three of my qualities:
1) Being a major starter of projects and not so much for finishing
2) Having very large feet
3) Being basically cheap

So knitting two at the same time from the toe-up means that there is no chance to develop SSS (second-sock syndrome, or the tendency to end up with single socks) and also I can just knit up the cuff until I run out of yarn. Very economical...no waste.

Yesterday the boys left for NJ to visit with relatives for the weekend. There's a bachelor's party my husband needs to attend (it's for his brother) and N is spending quality time with his grandparents there whom he doesn't see often. That leaves the GIRLS at home! Girls Party! Girls Weekend! We went out to dinner, just the two of us, last night and today we went shopping today...lol...I never go shopping but I need a dress for aforementioned summer wedding and M is a good helper. "Does that one fit, mom?"

An added bonus is the increased knitting time. I forgot what it was like to have only one child, one who naps for 3+ hours every day!

Thursday, May 31, 2007

Did You See?

Jared is embarking on the adult Tomten cruise! He's such a good knitter, so I'm really interested to see what modifications he makes and how it turns out. Maybe I'll be able to salvage my big, gartery thing based on his experience.

For now I'm plugging away on socks and really enjoying it. Pictures, hopefully, tomorrow. I made a mistake in the pattern so I need to rip back. Thank god I put in a lifeline.

Today we spent an ungodly amount of time at the health clinic for our daughter's first visit with the ENT doctor. He recommended surgery to insert tiny tubes in her ear drums to help fluid drain. Then they were able to fit us in to see everyone else we needed to see before scheduling the surgery for Tuesday! Although I know it will be traumatic to see her under anesthesia, and no surgery is without risk, we are very happy about the prospect of getting her off the seemingly constant cycle of antibiotics.

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

100 Things

OK, doing the Seven Things prompted me to do the ever-popular 100 Things. Hey, don't laugh. It was either this or more photos of the Egg Jacket on Sleeve Island. Why on earth do we have arms? I digress. Here's more about me than anyone would ever like to know.

100 things

1.I’ve wanted to be a writer ever since I read “Harriet The Spy”. Harriet records all sorts of goings-on in her notebook.
2.I’ve tried to keep a diary, but I can’t stick with it.
3.I do have bachelor’s degree in journalism.
4.When I was in college, my parents were embarrassed of my aspirations to be a journalist.
5.Until I faked being embarrassed that my mom was into gardening; then they shut up about it.
6.My parents are generally very supportive.
7.There was only one other time when they weren’t, and it was when I was moving in with my boyfriend.
8.That was 12 years ago. We’ve been married for 10 years now.
9.I’ve lived in four states, one district and two countries: Ohio, Wisconsin, New York, Washington, DC, North Carolina & France.
10.I did not own a car until I was 24 years old.
11.My husband still drives that car every day to work. It has 108K miles on it.
12.Washington, DC, was an interesting place in which to live. I always say about DC: “Great place to visit, wouldn’t want to live there.” And about Raleigh, NC “Great place to live, wouldn’t want to visit.”
13.I moved to DC about eight months after graduating from college. I didn’t have a job. So in between job interviews, I toured every single free museum.
14.After that, I never visited another one.
15.I lived in Ithaca, NY, right after college, working as an intern for American Demographics magazine.
16.I met my husband in a meat-market bar in Alexandria, VA.
17.He picked me up.
18.I almost didn’t give him my phone number; I was afraid my roommate would make fun of me.
19.She did. But I got the last laugh.
20.I was born on 3/3. My mom was born on 6/6 and my paternal grandmother was born on 9/9.
21.My son was due 8/9, so I was gunning for 8/8. He was three days “late.”
22.My daughter was due 3/28. I did not even think about the possibility of her being born on 4/4 until I went into labor the evening of 4/3. Seriously, who wants to think their baby will be five days late? She was born on 4/4 at 1:04 am.
23.I am not superstitious.
24.I grew up on five acres of woods in Ohio, in a place that was completely rural, but it’s now posh to live there.
25.Our school was one building that housed Kindergarteners through high school seniors. Now there are 13 elementary schools, four middle schools and three high schools.
26.It was one of two in our athletic conference that had a cinder track.
27.I threw discus and shotput.
28.We moved to Wisconsin three days before my junior year in high school.
29.I wouldn’t recommend doing that to a 16-year-old girl.
30.I do think I am a stronger person for having moved then. It took me quite awhile to believe that, however.
31.I was not popular at either high school, but I had a few good friends.
32.All of my friends played sports.
33.I went to the state track meet for shotput in Wisconsin in 1989 and I placed last.
34.The next year I went for discus and I placed 12th.
35.I was embarrassed about those accomplishments.
36.I went on to make the volleyball team freshman year in college.
37.My first college semester GPA was a 2.2.
38.My parents asked: “Are you going to be a professional volleyball player or a writer?” I did not try out for the team the next year.
39.I graduated with a 3.3 GPA
40.In 1994 I studied for one semester in France. I was at the Ecole Superieure de Commerce in Toulon.
41.The campus was called the “la Grande Tourrache” and we called it “Grand Trash”.
42.I dated a French guy I met there for more than a year.
43.It is time to call it quits when you get along better with someone while they are in another country.
44.I learned to knit in 2000.
45.I took a beginners knitting class at a local technical college. It was 12 classes for $50. I think it was a bargain.
46.The first project I made was a roll-brim hat with Lite Lopi I had bought from the craft store.
47.I was knitting in the round with circular needles and had no idea what to do when the decreases made it too tight to continue. I was stymied.
48.So I learned to knit with dpns soon afterward.
49.But I knit most everything I can on circular needles, even straight pieces.
50.I listen to public radio any chance I get.
51.I think it makes me a better person.
52.My favorite shows are “This American Life” and “What Do You Know?” (not much, you?)
53.My husband got me an iPod for Mothers’ Day and the first thing I downloaded was the latest podcast of “This American Life.”
54.While I was growing up, my mom would make dinner while listening to Paul Harvey. You know, the “Now you know the rest of the story…” guy.
55.She would get really angry if we talked during the show.
56.They haven’t listened to NPR for years, claiming it’s too liberal.
57.I am pro-choice and generally liberal. They are decidedly not.
58.I am the middle of three sisters. My husband is the middle of three brothers. We are like the Brady Bunch, but not really, since we’re not siblings. Ew.
59.Being the middle meant that I grew up wanting either two or four children.
60.Neither of my sisters knit.
61.When I was a kid, it was so cold in our house in the winter that we got dressed downstairs by the woodburning stove.
62.We lived on five acres of woods. It was a lovely place to grow up.
63.One of the most startling images in my mind from childhood was watching the Challenger blow up on TV. I was home from school watching it because we had a snow day.
64.I had two rabbits: Cinnamon and Snickers.
65.I had two hamsters: Marshmallow and Cinnamon.
66.I did not have Cinnamon the hamster and Cinnamon the rabbit at the same time.
67.I did not name everything after food. I had a plant named Emmett.
68.I did not name everything.
69.My first name is Jennifer, along with about 100 million other people in their 30s.
70.My parents said they didn’t know a single person or child named Jennifer when they had me.
71.I guess they thought they were original.
72.I was the ear infection kid growing up.
73.Now my daughter is.
74.I like to volunteer. I am on the Board of Directors at my children’s preschool.
75.I love singing to music while I’m driving. I generally like 90s progressive music.
76.Right now there’s a CD in my player tuned to “Loser” by Beck. I love that song.
77.I like to think of “Loser” as the anthem of Gen-X. It’s funny to think of all these successful Gen-Xers singing “Loser” 15 years ago.
78.Here’s what Wikipedia says about Gen-X (in case you are too young to remember): “During the early 1990s, the media portrayed Generation X as a group of flannel-wearing, alienated, overeducated, underachieving slackers with body piercings, who drank franchise-store coffee and had to work at McJobs, concepts that had some truth to them but were in many cases stereotypes.”
79.When that song was popular, I was in college, working as a server at a restaurant during the summer, and the dishwashers used to yell the lyrics as loud as they could.
80.Frickin’ hilarious.
81.I know nothing about bar drinks. Once when a man asked for an onion in his drink, I went to the salad bar and put a piece of raw onion in his drink. He thought it was a funny joke, but I was not kidding.
82.I’m a pretty good waitress, although I hope to never do it again. It’s hard work.
83.I’m fairly good at multi-tasking.
84.One semester in college, I was sports editor for our college newspaper.
85.I made about 50 cents an hour at this job.
86.That semester I made coaches particularly angry because I refused to put “Woman in Sports” day on the front page and then I wrote a column about how they should put more effort into it so it would actually be news.
87.My final semester I was editorial editor. Then I made a sandwich shop chain particularly angry because I ran an editorial cartoon depicting its recent ecoli outbreak and likening it to ‘trick or treat’ because it was Halloween.
88.The newspaper lost that advertising account. I’ve heard that sub shop still doesn’t run ads, and they had been running them weekly for years.
89.I would have liked to work for a newspaper, but I couldn’t take the hours as a newbie.
90.So I sold out. My last full-time job before I had children was as a marketing copywriter. It was a cushy 8-5 job.
91.My first job was at a nonprofit association magazine. My starting salary was $21,000/year. In Washington, DC.
92.I took the metro. I mourn the fact I didn’t know how to knit, because no doubt I could have completed unknown numbers of socks, ala Wendy.
93.I was sure I would have two boys. My husband is one of three sons; his father is one of five sons.
94.When I was pregnant with our son, we only had one name picked out. We didn’t even have a girl name.
95.At the 20-week ultrasound the second time around, I was flabbergasted to find out she was a girl. I know, the odds are 50/50, but I was really shocked.
96.Soon after that, I got really happy about it. Very soon after.
97.This is getting boring.
98.Good thing there’s only two left.
99.I once met Jane Pauley in person when I received a national award for a magazine I wrote and managed.
100.I can never pick a favorite color or a favorite food. I have too many.

Thursday, May 03, 2007

Egg Jacket Procedeth

Although it may look like boring knitting, this is truly right up my alley, as they say. I stay at home with my two kids, that is to say that I am their full-time caregiver. We don't always stay home--that would be suicide.

Anyway, lately there is no time to knit during the day. I don't think of this as anyone's "fault" but rather just that right now life is busy with two little beings. I have always been sure I will miss the hell out of their little selves when they are even 6 and 8 years old, so I am trying to enjoy them as much as possible. As possible as they make it, that is.

So a 7:30 p.m. bedtime for them leaves me with 1.5 or maybe 2 hours of knitting time at night. And usually I am truly beat. Very spent and don't really feel like spending it doing math or backward flips to figure out something new.

I have to keep telling myself this, unfortunately, because I'm so inspired by so many blogs and projects out there and sometimes it gets to the point where I feel guilty for not pushing my skills more.

The truth is that right now, knitting for me is about getting to my center, doing something I really enjoy and making something that looks nice. Maybe when they are 6 and 8 and I will have the energy to do backflips.

Saturday, April 28, 2007

Who knew?

Who knew that cleaning out the garage on a sunny Spring morning could be so much fun?

Ok, it wasn't that fun, for at least two of us. But the other two could be said, at times, to be having quite a fun time.

Who knew that a well-worn, cracked and broken pink sled could have a different use...when there (thankfully) was no snow to be found?

Who knew that I would suddenly find yet another photo for Project Spectrum? Like the slacker that I am, I hadn't joined until recently. But I put a photo up there yesterday and will do another today.Who knew my kids could be so sweet...when there were two of the interesting item to play with, of course.

Thursday, April 19, 2007

10 years

Ten years ago today, I married a great man. There's not much more to say without getting all sappy.

We were married under the Pergola in Duke Gardens in Durham, NC on April 19, 1997. The reception was at the Siena Hotel in Chapel Hill. We occasionally miss North Carolina--he more than I--usually around this time of year because it's so beautiful down there before it gets scorchingly hot.

Here's to 50 more!

Friday, April 13, 2007

Tempting the 13th

Today is Friday the 13th. Why one would schedule elective surgery for today is truthfully beyond me. I am not overly superstitious, but why would you want to even chance it?

My loving husband gets his top wisdom teeth out this afternoon. Let's hope he sails through it. Our 10th anniversary is in 6 days and I sure would like to celebrate it with him.

Thanks for keeping your fingers crossed for us.

ETA: All is well. Nothing a few painkillers, some ice packs, a few gauze squares and time won't fix. Thanks for your well wishes!

Wednesday, April 04, 2007

Fickle (or, What To Do When a Knit Gives You Trouble)


So, the dress hasn't budged. I haven't even frogged it. Something in me--maybe it's the warmer weather?--said that we need a blanket for our family room. Of course this makes no sense at all. I should be working on the Summer Toddler Dress (made from Schaefer Laurel yarn, by the way). But I have been wanting to try a Log Cabin blanket for awhile now and since it's the kind of thing you can knit for a week, put down for a month, and have no problem picking back up, I thought I'd take a stab at it. As a diversion, it scores high points.

First I created a layout based on this lovely blanket.

Then, just started knitting it, referring to the Mason-Dixon Knitting book. The center patch is Rowan Denim, but the rest is Elann Naturelle 8/8 on cones. I bought heaploads of it a few years ago and I'm happy to say that I love it (I have a Wallaby made from it, too). I washed that center patch before I picked up stitches because the Rowan Denim fades so much in the first wash and I was worried about the dye coming off on the other yarns. The Naturelle 8/8 shrinks the same amount as Denim, so I should be OK.

It's M's second birthday today. We're celebrating with a family party this weekend. She helped me make her cake this morning, so now all she's been saying all morning is "Want CAAAKE!" Two. Sigh.

Friday, March 16, 2007

10 Years

It has been almost 10 whole years since my husband and I got married. I don't feel that old (I turned 35 earlier this month). Go ahead, say some nice things in the comments. ;) We've had a great relationship, filled with ups and downs like any other, but we've been building this little family (not so little anymore!) on which we four can depend, always-- in any situation -- and I hope it stays like that forever.


It feels funny to post a "where are they now" for my knits because this blog hasn't been around very long. But nonetheless, M wears this hat and mittens almost every single day. And I love this photo.